If he only shows one body language sign of attraction in his body language then it would be difficult to accurately conclude that he is attracted to you because he might be showing it for many different reasons. But shit change and he grabbed my attention. I know you want this guy but if you put up with this your end up hurt in the end. But he doesnt know his boundaries. Why do you feel the need to prove your worth? Smh.. all I see is worthless woman thinking she's it..lol. That's because in order to have a healthy relationship with his mom, your guy has to have some boundaries. 11 Things To Do When Your Boyfriend Talks to His Baby Mama Everyday. To lift her self up financially so she could leave me. but had you been on birth control he wouldn't have been able to "trap" you as you call it. An occasional message late at night is fine if it's . I was devastated and it all made since, but he took away my choice in this. Just because that's the kind of person he is. Hey , I'm female currently dealing with a sitution with a guy I knew for about three years. I cant, so for that being said. Sounds messed up to say but I wouldn't date someone with a child. So, what does it mean when a guy calls you mama? 21 Sure Signs He's Still In Love With His Baby Momma. Whether it be positive or negative feelings Damn.thats hurtful but.the truth my son father left me pregnant to be with his ex girlfriend who was also pregnant she lost her baby I had mine now they engaged and I let my son go to spend weekends with his dad now my son father just try. Have a baby mama. In some cases, a guy might start calling you his baby mama because he's trying to drop a subtle (or not so subtle) hint that he wants to have children with you. He never wants to communicate. Your the secret woman that no one knows about. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months. I will never let my daughter go through that I went through ever . The reason that he calls you wifey might actually be that he is being manipulative and he is doing it to make it feel like the relationship is more serious than it really is. It would be just too complicated for me. I will always love my baby mama. Do you want to be a single mom? I don't make him pay child support or anything. Call him immature, call him a boy, call him selfish and needy or a narcissist. Where's that ring? I feel bad for you..my boyfriend was doing this..he would go shopping with them his ex and 7 yr old..go to all the school functions and never invite me..we were together 4 years and im sure he did it more than i knew..on the 5th year he was with her more ..after 7mos of the constant lies and telling me i was crazy for thinking he was messing around..the ex calls me..she tells me they have been out together and "tried having sex" but never did..so he wanted to be w me in the end.n i felt like ha **** he chose me! Ok so I have a situation that I feel I can't control but the guy that I'm seeing probably can..so I've been seeing this guy for about 8 months now..his baby mama decides to move back with him and their children without any notice(they've been separated for 2 yrs now).. he doesn't seem to care that she's back, he says she's back because of the kids and for me to be patient and that he's trying to figure something out how do I know if he is over her or not????? We literally were the same person!! Always have an attraction? It also shows you how to read and interpret body language and how to make use of your own body language. It's different. If he did call you mama because he naturally calls women mama then it would be likely that he would have said it to other women as well and that he would show the same body language and behavior around them as he shows around you. Tell him to make her stop or send him right back to her if its so hard for him to set things straight and make her understand that he is with someone else so she should go on with her life too. hclips.com. Y'all both getting played and you getting played worse than his new girl. Phone convos? Stepmother Calls Fixer, He Fucks Mommy Hard. I've been loyal to my husband! The man enters and doesn't finish inside hence that way you don't get pregnant Not all women are on welfare and can afford birth control so this can and does happen to women all the time. It's not about how we feel about eachother. Er no. He's not a very social person through text so we really don't talk as often as I would like. I'm in this same situation. Long story short, he put her back at arms length once the baby came, and she tried to kill herself a couple of times. (I left her cuz she cheated) she thinks I'm never going to find anyone but her.it seems like She just ****s with me and I'm not the type to get revenge but I wanna just find someone else to be with and move on . And to say I don't care about my daughter's mom is like saying I don't care about my daughter in a certain sense. He wants to keep you locked down. But there are some that do get over the relationship and the love. what is going to happen after that child turn 18. baby mamas are just ****, and those typical moms need to get a life because if she had somebody serious or a husband she wouldn't be doing that. They like ages between 21-25. I was fine, but found out I was pregnant. I do love him, I have met his family and they are really nice and caring towards me. He introduced her as his fiancee. I don't know what to do. They were both grown already but it still caused issues. She even visits his house when he is not there and stays over with his sister saying its too late for her to go home. So guys me and my daughter's dad split twice and it's been a year since our second split we have both moved on and he is now purchasing a home with the new girlfriend. I tell him, "Either call me my name, M's momma, or just don't say shit at all. My boyfriend has now told me that I cant text him or call him after 7(after work) because he doesn't want the baby mama to know that he has a girlfriend because he says she could take the child and move somewhere else with out telling him. Can a 40 year old woman date a 23 year old guy? And just let him be. Your guy calls you baby because he is a hopeless romantic. And sometimes despite how horrible a person the ex is, some people just never let go or move on. You know ur right sometimes women do make bad choices some don't use birth control n I am one of those. And I loved him. But yet I will never be good enough!!! Does any of this make sense if you were truly his girlfriend and she were an ex? Take care. My Husband and I have been married since 2008. Should they even talk after a certain time of night? When trying to understand why he called you mama it would be helpful to consider the timing and location that he said it in. When he is home he barley spends time with my son. WOW, Once a guy is married with kids he's not available anymore what is it girls don't get there's no such thing as a divorce! Our biggest issue is that he's allergic to my cat. I have been playing both roles as mother and father for the past 16 years taking the responsibility financially, physically, and emotionally. I don't need problems. Again, it would be helpful to consider if he was showing numerous signs of attraction. I don't have the effort to try again atleast for now . Long story short I have done everything in my power to get this woman back! If he was a guy that you hadnt met before then it would be more likely that he was either showing attraction to you or that he naturally says it to women. He did! He's done something disrespectful to her. Maybe he just heard it and found it amusing, and dedcided to pass it on. He cheated and got the girl knocked up. I was once in a relationship with someone who has two kids. This is one of the reasons why the economy *****. 32:47. I know its not always easy to bring up something like this, especially if he clearly likes calling you this name and it makes him happy. Before and while I was pregnant. I, however, am the nickname type. You ever heard the saying" I know what I bring to the table, therefore I don't mind eating alone". Unless you have kids with him already. These girls he's messing with hate the fact that I'm around him , they don't even want to think about me and him even going out for our daughter . She cheated 2x. Anyway I was ready to walk I don't want that in my life or to be a second to no one. In some cases, a guy might start calling you his baby mama because hes trying to drop a subtle (or not so subtle) hint that he wants to have children with you. Fortunately for me, he was someone who told her not to bother him unless it has to do with the kids and it was urgent. When trying to understand why he called you mama and the way that he feels about you it would be helpful to consider the way that he reacts to seeing you. Originally Posted by RoyalDanceQueen View Post, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, he has a child with his ex but he told me their relationship ended long time ago. If you have been dating him for a while then the reason that he calls you mama could be that he thinks that you are his girlfriend. Honestly, I would be interested as to why y'all haven't been able to meet one another. Sorry for cursing. By calling this, I mean that I care about you, I find you . Secrets don't work, and what needs to happen is that everybody needs to be clear and on the up-and-up. They divorced 18 years later. Press Esc to cancel. He is lying to you. He also calls me sweetie and my love but would never call his daughter those things. As I moved on with the next guy for about four mouths , I end up dropping him and going back to my original guy from the start , the one I have history with. But why what did she do so bad for you to feel this way? AS AN AMAZON ASSOCIATE, Body Language Central EARNS FROM QUALIFYING PURCHASES. The mother of your child(ren), whom you did not marry and with whom you are not currently involved. not every man will always love his baby momma. HE TOLD ME THEIR RELATIONSHIP ENDED LONG TIME AGO? He needs to let you go so he can be with his family even if you think it's his ex and she lives with him as family not as a room mate. It would not matter where I am at in life or who I am with, if she would give things another shot I would drop anything and everyone to do just that. - yup! If you see him often and youre trying to understand the way that he feels about you then it would be helpful to compare the way that he interacts with you with the way that he interacts with others. If he doesnt, it sounds like a continuous headache waiting to happen for the woman I know, who really deserves better. We have talked about this issue but he just tells me to be patient because he will buy them an apartment to move in too and that everything would be back to normal. I'm just a honest guy who doesn't play games and I want a good woman to be with that I can trust. Of course, you dont have to have children with him just because hes calling you his baby mama, but it is a sign that hes serious about you. I am ****ed but guess what. Thats a huge ass grey area because if you had love for your ex just because, he wouldnt date you. i feel after 3 yrs she has to grow up. The only thing I want is for him is to always have that daughter father bond. If a guy ever got into drama with another woman guess what THERE'S FEELINGS THERE! Why would he buy his ex an apartment? Another less likely option is that it is a new term to him and he didn't quite know what it meant, and thought it was like "baby girl". I'm basically in the same situation. Lots of mixed emotions. Deep down they are still hoping or wishing things had worked out differently, especially if there wasn't something major like abuse or cheating going on. Regardless of how long his last relationship with his ex or his baby mama lasted, your boyfriend is supposed to make his kid and you the priority over his baby momma. Please contact your hosting provider to ensure that an up-to-date and valid SSL certificate issued by a Certificate Authority is configured for this domain name on the origin server. By entering this site you declare If this is the case, then its a good thing! Anyway fwd now, I told him is okay if you are going to want things this way is okay no issues with me. However, when a strange man calls you baby, it can be just plain creepy.